oh, i didn't read it as ingratitude at all! my inner (outer?) book nerd simply continued on trying to find a more perfect match. :) seriously the Toby Daye novels are a very fun ride. but so's that other stuff!

(I think swordspoint was the first actually-gay fantasy novel i ever found and i was like: this is TREASURE. i am glad the world has expanded and also i still adore every word of it.)